Saturday, April 25, 2020

Coming Back!!!

Coming Back!!!

It has been over seven years since I returned to my blog space. I don't know what vacuum is created inside when we lose parents in life. I wrote many notes, but I simply forgot about this blogging I used to do until my friend teasingly reminded me last week. I felt I had missed my spiritual friend, and I had to return back. The Guru appears when we are ready. I have been missing something deep within me, and no amount of variety of successful laudable work was fulfilling me. There was a deep yearning. Unknowingly, to fill that space, I searched for exciting action, good-old school friends, jokes on WhatsApp, endless conversations, regarding pandemic situations... nothing satisfying. In all these two things, I had stopped journaling as often as I did and writing to myself through this blog. The poetry had waned out. Tears that used to threaten to fall had begun to dry out, and a stifling inside had begun. Prayers to find a way out was on, and the Guru appeared. I was sipping my coffee yesterday morning and typed out a message to Swami Achalananda Giri, I need help. I don't know what is happening. He had gifted me a book in January with a note, "meditate, meditate, meditate till you reach the goal." I asked him about it and realized I had stopped my meditation too this year. Some things waters the soul, and if we don't take care of it, every other good manure we are pouring only begins to burn the plant. Recognize what helps your soul water, breathe, and sustain. What builds a fire inside, and what grounds us to relax and rest? The vacuum in life settles in those five elements and doesn't allow us to rise and fly high. Identifying and capturing those elements and building a routine around them are setting self on the spiritual path.
Pals, now that I am set wait for more. I am going to begin a story of seeking that has been weaving inside me!!! coming soon :) :) 

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Surrender....


Surrender

Both are an Ego management practices. In shadow the Ego plays. It does not submerge. For anything to submerge there has to be something that is vast that will help submerge. So in surrender the love of God and Guru is so vast that it can easily submerge. Whether internally anchored or externally anchored both are ego’s feeders. When the Ego works with shadow, it is not actually submerging or destroying the Ego in reality. It is the Ego working with its own so-called self-destruction which makes again at the end the ego to triumph and praise its own capacity to work with the shadow.  The anima and animus are again the creation of two dimensions of the ego. When one has been conquered the conqueror still exists. The original ultimate vision and path of every great person has been oneness with God and consciousness to realize the part of the whole and wholeness in part. Then, surrender has been the greatest virtue of these people rather than work with their egos and focus on goal achievements. To surrender calls for great strife, struggles, difficulties, facing challenges, all created by the ego. But once the surrender happens the vast ocean of love of God is there to help, support, and lift.

Am I love or am I in love?



30/4/2013
Am I love or am I in Love?

I have read the deepest love in your eyes
But I doubt will my feelings make sense
I have read how to touch and feel
But I am afraid to be vulnerable
I can write heart touching lines that describe vividly
But the sound stops short when I have to say it
I know how to cuddle to make one reach the moon
But I wait for you make the move to reach out
I know to read clearly all the expressions that pass a face
But I fall into doubt every night being alone if all is truly true
I know every stroke and touch that can ignite the passion
But I question do I have the capacity to do it
I know what lights up your eyes and bring you joy
But I enjoy denying what I can give you most easily
What is it in me that blocks me to transcend knowledge to being?
What does it take from me to chuck my knowledge and just ‘Be’ ?
Submerge, submit, melt, integrate, letgo...
Where is the ‘me’ in my knowledge or in my submission?
What’s my love? What I know or what I give or what I am? 

'Illusion' or 'reality'


penned on 20-12-2005 as to how should a true connect be in life....

Are you as my friend, in person, a reality?
Is my liking for you, which makes you a friend, an illusion?

The endless time I want to spend sitting next to you, a reality?
Or the trail of thoughts that you leave behind in me with which I continue to interact, an illusion?

Is your coming to meet me, a reality?
Or the twinkle in my eye that lightens up seeing you, an illusion?

The well chosen words that form my expressions while talking to you, a reality?
Or the warmth that spreads all through the cells of my body as I talk to you, an illusion?

The endless hours of nights I spend in your hugs, a reality?
Or the feeling of security, like a child in mother’s womb, that I feel, an illusion?

The naming of this relationship and the way it is identified, a reality?
The space this relationship gives me to be ‘me’ in this relationship, an illusion?

Your existence as another being outside me, a reality?
The person that you are constantly within me, an illusion?

Which is reality? Which is illusion?
What is the illusion about this reality?
What is the reality about this illusion?


Knowing the Real ME !!!


Finding the real ME

(actually  penned on   8-1-2009) 
“All there is, is but his glory. He is more than all of this. All of creation is just a quarter of Him, while three quarters of Him are eternally in heaven”
(PuruSHA Suktam, Mantra 3)
“All variations come forth from Purusha. Thus, from within He assumed multiple forms. He grew immensely fathoming the entire cosmos (brahmanda)”               
(PuruSHA Suktam,Mantra 5)

A chain of events in the last one year and reflections on it led to the understanding and insights about what this means to me in life. The insights sprang from the reflections on ‘why do I need to relate?’ ‘What does relationship mean to me?’ ‘What is the meaning of all that happens in the relationship?’ ‘Where does this lead me to?’ ‘What is the essence I need to carry finally?’

My insights –
Well, I am a part of the creator and so are you, and so is everyone else. But in order to remain away from creator as a separate part is the ‘illusion’. When that illusion comes to awareness there is an understanding that my vision ultimately is to travel and become a part of this cosmos as I was initially. This form that has been given to me is what separates me from the Brahman or PuruSHA. So, my identity to this form is what creates my separation.

But how do I join this cosmos ultimately? One is to continue to let go every identity to such a deep extent that I become ‘nothing’ and therefore ‘everything’. Or to know myself and my every part to such an extent that, I include every part of the universe into me that I become the universe myself. In the former, I move away completely from all stimulus and relationships. In the later I understand myself from every relationship and stimulus that I can raise myself above all that and transcend. These are not two different paths actually but perhaps a sequel. The need to let go will be natural when I have transcended. But that let go is more special because it is an ‘outcome’ and not a ‘means’.


Well, what do these relationships mean then?
If I am part of the PuruSHA and so are others, this is a kind of web world. To complete myself I require others and when I am on that journey I meet people who actually are the other side of me who will help me find myself. They reflect to me a part of me so that I know that part and can transcend that part by including it into me. Every individual is none other than a reflection of something I need to know.

Therefore, when that reflection is realized, the purpose of that ‘person’ ceases and one moves on. Sometimes, when I do not understand this I fail to see both dissonance and alignment as the same. I see them as separate. Anything I see separate causes distinction leading me to again identify with ‘my form’ taking me away, further away from Cosmos. Identification makes the Ego come into play pushing the consciousness away.

So people come, people go, relatedness happens, relatedness ceases. Yes, in some web connections which are needed to sustain larger purpose, ‘relationships’ happens and remains for so called ‘longer period’ which may to be to the human brain ‘lifetime’ but is actually a fraction in the ‘yojana’ time period (light years). A SadPuruSHA is able to recognize this easily and therefore can transcend time and space leading to being a SadGuru.

How do I then explain some relatedness that are there for a while, gone and then come back?
We do say ‘It’s never the same again’ when a relationship comes back in life. It is so because it is not meant to be the same again when both have transcended. When relatedness with a person comes back what does it mean? It means there is more to know, and this web connection is required to know more about self. How can I know more by wanting to live in the same realm that I have already been in? I need to be willing to the new space to know the new that is ME.

How do I then know the  difficulties in relatedness and relationships that I face?
They are simply for me areas that, I have not explored, the unseen. The difficulty is only in the way they get presented, but not in the knowledge of self. They come in the way they come and cause a difficulty because I am not prepared to receive or refuse to receive. Preparation would mean being ready to reflect, receiving would mean openness and non-judgmental.

What do relationships mean then?
When the relatedness becomes relationship, it has a larger role to play. It is like the web connection that is on for several other connections and therefore there is a greater level of alignment. It can be so deep that a learning and change in one can be reflected into the other seamlessly. I feel the other, without a need for words and expressions.

What does this mean to me?
All this understanding means that there are two death knells to this process – one bonding and holding on; the other preempting the outcomes in the name of expectations. When I am willing to just ‘be’ and ‘flow’ the messages come; when I reflect the ‘expansion’ happens.

I need to do this to throw open the doors of awareness about myself. That is the path to enlightenment – if I may call it so. When I continue to relate, learn, reflect, expand, grow…. I journey from micro to macro. And there comes a time when I know I am no longer just me, but the cosmos itself. I transcend, time, distance, space and pulsate with the pulsation of the world.
“Aham Brahmasmi”
It is this journey that is the real commitment and this me the ‘real me’; all else is ‘mitya’.

Magic - real or doubt???

We all want magic to happen to life! we are seeking it and in search of it. We say if only dreams would come true... but when magic truly happens we shrug it as something we cannot believe  as something strange; as a coincidence; as a freak incident... many times we don't even allow it to touch us... when you find the person of your dreams that you have been truly searching for comes and stretches the hand, how many of us can hold it in an instance? if you went and looked into their eyes and said I have known you all my life, how many would even believe? it seems so much easier to doubt than to believe. 

But magic always attracts; it is the mystery that draws one towards it; to know what it is; then why shun it if it happens? continues to happen ; can it become a way of life? 

But it calls for a complete absolute trust on self and to see every other self as a representation of self!!!

My realisation is that for magic t be a way of life, I am my own limitation... no one else or no other condition is...


Sunday, March 10, 2013

Kumbh Mela experience - positivism

While every human deep down is born positive - "come into the world kicking and excited to explore" is what we say...  I wonder then, why each of us are so happy to read, witness, talk, discuss, spread... so many stories that are negative. The most popular news has more and more of ghastly stories than those happy, successful stories. The goodness is most of the times taken for granted. Same was the Kumbh mela experience.

When I said I am going to kumbh there were so many stories of how it is a crazy idea and there are so many possibilities of problems - I am inviting the problems right from transport to allergies and skin diseases!!! 'what's in a Snan' said most well-wishers... Very few actually said 'how lucky'!

The real experience was so different and Magical! we stayed for almost six days - nearly 80lakhs may be on a single day... I did not hear or see -

  • anyone swear
  • anyone upset with the crowd or distances to walk
  • the police were so helpful and friendly 
  • people waiting patiently for alms
  • no harassment by any boatmen for more money 
  • no extra or hike charges on grocery, flowers, clothing... because of festival
  • every share auto, phat-phati, taxi driver willing to stretch to keep the visitors happy 
  • nearly 24hrs of devotional songs by varied groups through the river bed
  • peak traffic people are willing to adjust give way for others so there is no clog
  • no clamoring  for anything 

and still so many arrangements and things that helped people experience the best! why not much is spoken about this magic that people usually wish to see? No readers for that??? I wonder

When I say I wish to see God but only talk about the achievements of the Satan... where is teh God within me invoked? where is the magic in my heart invoked... when I see good all round, I am surrounded by the good all round. The moksha is not in a Snan but in the experience of letting go; experience of being guided and experience of evolution within... the goodness gives the ability to forgive and forget!


Friday, February 22, 2013

Purpose of this blog


This is a space I have opened to myself to document so many stories. Everyday is a story and every event is a story. There is a lot that happens and somewhere one has to have that discipline to document. Similarly is the issue of magic in life. All of us want magic to happen but do not know how. Magic is nothing  but the manifestation of what we need rather than what we desire and what we want. It is the Ichacha shakti that all of us posses that needs to be invoked. then, magic begins to happen!!!
In this space I want to share all my thoughts with regard to this. It may coincide with the path that several souls are undertaking perhaps...